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| Manning house in Dowell, Maryland (1960) |
SPRUCE HILL LUNCH: A FAREWELL (2003)
"The past is never dead. It's not even past." -William
Faulkner
I grew up in Dowell, Maryland, a town so small that you didn’t
need a phone very often, because everyone you knew (or needed to know) was within hollering distance. Dowell was just a few
houses on one side of a wide creek, a combination post office/general store, and a tavern. We did all of our business in Solomons
Island, a town of about 800 people just down the road on the Patuxent River.
Solomons is where my father worked as a marine biologist, where
my mother worked as a librarian, and where my brother and I attended elementary school. It’s also where we played Little
League and Babe Ruth League baseball, where we went to the movies on weekends (one of the theaters was on a long pier), and
where most of my playmates were a 15-minute bike ride away. It didn’t occur to me at the time, but I guess it was not
too far short of an idyllic place for a kid to live.
My maternal grandmother, Maggie Belle McLaughlin, also grew
up in a rural environment, one she might have regarded nostalgically as equally idyllic. She was born 126 years ago in Spruce
Hill, Pennsylvania, a tiny agricultural village in the Tuscarora Valley, about 35 miles northwest of Harrisburg. She lived
in a large stone house that was apparently built around the time her father, John A. McLaughlin, was born (1834). Thirty years
later, John fought in the Civil War as a member of the 101st Regiment of Pennsylvania volunteers. After the war,
he married Hannah Jane Butler and spent the rest of his life working as a farmer.
Maggie McLaughlin attended Marshall Academy (now Marshall University)
in Huntington, West Virginia. After living and working in Huntington for a few years, she met and married Maryland native
and building contractor Conrad Marene Chaney, and they raised a family (including my mother Mary Elizabeth) in Washington,
DC.
My mother loved to talk about her extended family visits to
Spruce Hill when she was a little girl. Her Aunt Myrtle lived just across the road from the stone house, and there were several
families nearby with kids to play with, a little general store in which to hang out and buy candy, and a church several miles
away in a village called Academia. I visited once with my parents around 1950, when I was about nine years old, and all I
can remember is that the house was big, and Aunt Myrtle made ice cream in a bucket on the back porch.
In May 2003, my wife and I drove down from our home in Northampton,
Massachusetts, to visit my mother in Maryland, and we took her up to Spruce Hill. She hadn’t been there in more than
50 years. Having gone back to several of my family homes over the years, I expected the shock and disappointment that comes
with discovering that progress and faded memories have rendered once-familiar things as practically unrecognizable.
Just north of Baltimore, we got off the beltway and headed northwest
on a two-lane road that rolled through little valley hamlets, and then to Hanover, a factory town where they make Utz Potato
Chips. After we reached Carlisle, a college town that reminded me of Northampton, we wound our way up and down several mountain
passes before finally descending into Spruce Hill.
Right away, we found the stone house. It looked exactly like
my mother had described it. And right across the street was Aunt Myrtle’s house, though it seemed a lot more modest
than I remembered. Along the same road, we passed by Store Lane, aptly named, because that’s where the general store
still stands. It was vacant. We even saw the one-room schoolhouse that Maggie Belle Chaney attended in the 1880s. It’s
now someone’s home.
As we drove around, my mother kept coming up with tantalizing
facts and stories I had never heard before. Seeing the green Tuscarora Mountains to the east, and the valley dotted with farms
and beautiful stone barns, we could ascertain pretty quickly that there would be no malls or highways to spoil the landscape
or the memories. Almost nothing had changed in 50 years. In fact, except for the blacktop roads, the area probably looked
much like it did 150 years ago.
Unable to locate the church and cemetery in Academia where my
mother’s grandparents are buried, we drove into Port Royal, which is two miles north of Spruce Hill, and asked for directions
at the post office. After pointing us in the right direction, the clerk recommended that we stop the following morning at
Spruce Hill Lunch, where the locals and old-timers hang out.
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| Spruce Hill Lunch, Spruce Hill, Pennsylvania (2003) |
After a night at the Super 8 in Lewistown, we pulled up in the
parking lot of Spruce Hill Lunch around mid-morning. About a mile north of my grandmother’s stone house, the restaurant
is located in a quaint building that looks a little like a train station. It was built in the 1940s, so it was new to my mother.
She and my wife went in while I stayed outside and took a few pictures.
When I finally came through the door, my mother was sitting
on a stool talking to a lady behind the counter. They were all smiles. At a table nearby, two couples looked on with amazement
as they dug into a big breakfast. The lady was owner Carlen McClure, and she seemed to know something about nearly everyone
my mother ever knew in Spruce Hill. Almost immediately, Mom was the center of attention, as others joined in the conversation,
including whoever happened to walk in and wonder what was going on.
Carlen was, of course, a native, and she was excited to be able
to compare notes with my mother about the people and the history of Spruce Hill. After a good 90 minutes of this, she extended
an invitation for a return visit ("Come in the fall. It’s beautiful then. I’ll take you on a tour and cook you
dinner.").
Spruce Hill Lunch was full of local color and good cheer. And
it was decorated with historic photos and hundreds of curios like old soda bottles and cracker tins. The food was wonderful,
especially the homemade pies. Then we headed for the cemetery. As we drove over to Academia, I thought to myself, "In another
generation, will this country still have small towns and places like Spruce Hill Lunch where local folks will not only welcome
visitors looking for their roots, but will also recognize and remember the family names?"
At the cemetery, we spotted my mother’s family gravesite
just a few steps up the hill from where we parked. There we were, my mother and I, standing next to the headstones of my great-grandparents.
It seemed appropriate that clouds hung low on the mountains and a light drizzle filled the cool spring air. The McLaughlin
family emigrated from Ireland in the 1700s, and there was an eerie Celtic spirit to that memorable day.
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| McLaughlin house in Spruce Hill, Pennsylvania (2003) |
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| Mary Elizabeth Manning (1918-2004) |
"The act of writing is for me often nothing more than
the secret or concious desire to carve words on a tombstone: to the memory of a town forever vanished, to the memory of a
childhood in exile, to the memory of all those I loved and who, before I could tell them I loved them, went away." -Elie
Wiesel, from Legends Of Our Time*
*Permission to use quote granted by Mr. Wiesel.
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